SELF CONTROL

Miss Cherish Remi writes:

Sometimes I want to voice out my thoughts, make posts or just tell someone that offended me "see what you did, I don't like it"

But sometimes in the cause of doing that, because of my "I must Talk am as e dey for my mind" I end up not just saying it because "as e dey me for mind", if I talk am, it will destroy my Relationships or get lots of people upset, what is supposed to be a simple correction that would have led to apology and make ups, it sometimes becomes something else, especially when it has to do with an older person.

Most times, I don't just talk, I just look at them and consider that yeah! I know this person didn't mean it, it wasn't his or her intentions to say this in an annoying manner, maybe I'm just misunderstanding them, I know how good they've been to me, so this thing can't spoil my relationship with them.

I let go!
Most annoying statements that I've swept under the carpet for peace to reign and never even talk about them not even remember them, I honestly like to avoid people that are very insensitive, especially when they don't know how to manage their words, I keep my distance, sorry, I can't help it "Dey your dey" kind of me pops out unconsciously.

Young folks with Android phones won't understand my above statement.

Maturity demands that you should know what to post, what to say and what to just let go out of your experience with some certain people and not always try to prove a point!

Well, I appreciate people who voice their mind, but! Be sensitive Sir or Ma!

The love of God is shed abroad in my heart 🥰😇🥰😇

#Lighter

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